We’re both building businesses, both juggling life, and the deal is simple: no BS. We coach each other, ask the hard questions, and call each other out when we’re slacking.
\nThis week, he dropped a line that felt like a double slap to the face (in the best way):
\nIt wasn’t rude.
It was facts.
And I felt it!
I’d been saying how things weren’t quite moving in the business — like I was doing a lot but not actually going anywhere. That sentence made me stop in my tracks.
\nThen he followed it up with:
\nCHAI! I was thinking in my head, he is not playing today!
\nBecause the truth is... I wasn’t.
Not because I didn’t care.
Not because I wasn’t putting in effort.
But because that kind of work is so easy to avoid.
Stuff like writing sales funnels.
Sorting out admin.
Updating the website.
Keeping the pipeline warm.
It doesn’t feel urgent.
It doesn’t give you a quick reward.
It’s not exciting.
It’s just work. Quiet, repetitive, but absolutely necessary work.
You know what the hardest thing I have to do every morning is?
\nBrushing my son’s teeth.
\nStick with me here — it does relate to what we’re talking about 😅
\nHe’s two.
It’s a full-on three-minute WWE match every time.
But we do it. Morning and night.
Because that boring routine — that daily battle with a wriggly toddler — is what sets him up to have healthy teeth. Teeth that don’t hurt, don’t go yellow, and don’t fall out.
(Technically, they will, because they’re baby teeth... but anyway, I digress.)
The point is: boring things build solid foundations.
\nIn parenting.
In business.
In life.
You can’t go to the gym once and expect to be in shape.
It’s the sessions you don’t want to do.
The days you’d rather skip.
The times you show up simply because you said you would.
That’s what I’d let slide.
\nI used to block out time each week to do the boring-but-necessary work that keeps things growing. But I’d fallen out of the habit.
\nThat conversation with my friend brought it back.
\nI blocked the time.
I did the work.
Not because I was inspired, but because I needed to be disciplined.
And surprise, surprise... things started moving again.
Nothing dramatic. Just forward.
So I’ll ask you what he asked me:
\nIf not, this is your reminder to start.
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Read Time: 2 minutes Happy Sunday 👋🏾, Every week, I have a check-in call with a close friend. We call it our accountability hour. This week, he dropped a line that felt like a double slap to the face (in the best way): “You know what you need to do. You just don’t want to do it.” It wasn’t rude. I’d been saying how things weren’t quite moving in the business — like I was doing a lot but not actually going anywhere. That sentence made me stop in my tracks. Then he followed it up with: “Are you doing the boring, unsexy things that actually move the business forward?” CHAI! I was thinking in my head, he is not playing today! Because the truth is... I wasn’t. Stuff like writing sales funnels. It doesn’t feel urgent. You know what the hardest thing I have to do every morning is? Brushing my son’s teeth. Stick with me here — it does relate to what we’re talking about 😅 He’s two. Because that boring routine — that daily battle with a wriggly toddler — is what sets him up to have healthy teeth. Teeth that don’t hurt, don’t go yellow, and don’t fall out. The point is: boring things build solid foundations. In parenting. You can’t go to the gym once and expect to be in shape. That’s what I’d let slide. I used to block out time each week to do the boring-but-necessary work that keeps things growing. But I’d fallen out of the habit. That conversation with my friend brought it back. I blocked the time. And surprise, surprise... things started moving again. So I’ll ask you what he asked me: Are you doing the boring, unsexy things that move things forward? If not, this is your reminder to start. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t feel like doing it. Have a great week! If someone forwarded this to you, Subscribe here. |
Hi, I'm Lawrence Tijjani, founder of Just a Guy CIC, a social enterprise dedicated to helping young people reach their full potential through mentoring and workshops. I started Just a Guy CIC after suffering a severe epileptic attack 10 years ago, which left me needing to relearn how to walk. Now, I battle chronic pain daily while running two businesses and raising my amazing son.